13/F I have issues with my mom, how can I deal with them?

Okay what a hard spot. Hopefully you have an aunt or someone that can talk to your mom. You need a bra and you are not fat. At least you are taking care of yourself with shaving, too bad you can not be open about it. Leave the makeup, curfew, and movie rating alone though. They come later. I am sorry that you are so limited, having a relative talk to her might help. Focus on being awesome, self sufficient, and portray yourself as a responsible adult. Give you mom no reasons to treat you like a little kid. Kill the junk food and maybe learn how to cook? This not only makes you feel good but takes weight off your mom's shoulders, is cheaper, and makes you look good. Good luck.